10 Things You Must Know About Dating Korean Girls

10 Things You Must Know About Dating Korean Girls

Note: The article ’10 Things You Must Know About Dating Korean Girls’  was meant to be for fun.  I am speaking from just my own personal experience as a white male and, of course, these points do not refer to all Korean women.   The information in this article is going to assume that you are indeed looking for a more substantial relationship rather than something that is short term.

Dating Korean Girls

Welcome to Korea.  You just arrived as a tourist, a new English teacher, a new exchange student or a factory worker.  Your goal is not only to travel, work or study here, but also to live here and experience the culture.  The best thing to overcome loneliness and improve your adjustment to the country would be to start dating a Korean woman.

Korean women are really the best girlfriends to have in the world.  They are pretty, cute, sexy, loyal, clean, sweet, fun and have an innocence about life that is quite refreshing.  After dating a Korean girl, many men get “Korean Fever”.

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So you start dating a local Korean girl, but quickly discover that dating a Korean girl is quite different than dating back home.  Your new relationship is full of cultural differences, linguistic misunderstandings and prejudice.

Here are  ten things you should know before you start dating Korean women.

#1   They Don’t Want to Look Easy

There is a prejudice and fear that foreigners think Korean girls are easy.  When a Korean girl dates a foreigner, they are scared that their new boyfriend may think they are easy. So, Korean women may be more cautious dating a foreign man than when dating a Korean man.  They are checking to see if you are just looking for an easy girl.

Treat the girl with respect, and don’t be too aggressive in the beginning and she will realize that you are looking for something more meaningful.  Pushing for ‘skinship’ or something more intimate too soon will cause her to doubt your intentions.

#2 You are a Playboy!

If you are a white, young, and somewhat handsome, male then a lot of Korean girls will quickly and automatically judge you as some sort of playboy or womanizer.  They know as a foreigner in Korea you attract a lot of attention and they may assume that you must have many girls chasing you.  They will certainly start any relationship with suspicion.  You are guilty until you can prove your innocence.

Early on, you may find that your new girlfriend will want to check your phone for evidence of you seeing another woman.  She may be aggressive about this, so be ready to hand over your phone. She wants to check your messages and photos and interrogate you about every female name and photo.   If you decline her requests to see your phone, then you are automatically guilty as a womanizer.

Don’t whine about it being your personal privacy, just hand over the damn phone. Hiding your phone just creates suspicion.  The act of allowing her access to your phone will go a long way in gaining her trust quickly and destroy her suspicions.

If you are stubborn and insist on not showing your phone, she will eventually get her hands on it and check it whether you like it or not.

#3 They Have a Fantasy About You

Some Korean women, especially older ones, tend to have a fantasy of meeting a foreigner and escaping patriarchal Korean society.  A lot of Korean women hate Korean traditions and culture which tend to favor Korean men. I don’t blame them.  So when they date a foreigner, you are an ‘out’.  You are clearly a more positive alternative than marrying a Korean guy and having to deal with an evil Korean mother-in-law or other intrusive family members.

When you start to date a Korean woman, they may already be thinking of marrying you and returning to your home country one day.  I suggest you be clear early in the relationship about your future plan about returning home and if that plan includes her.  Every girls hates it when their boyfriend says, “I’m going back home now… without you. Thanks for the year of free sex and being my tour guide. Bye”.  Well, they don’t actually say those words, but the meaning is similar.  Unfortunately, this situation is all too common.

#4  Family is Important

A Korean woman is very respectful, loyal and obedient to her parents and the parents, in turn, are very protective and meddlesome about their daughter’s personal affairs.  Even when a Korean girl is dating a Korean guy, parents have significant power in manipulating her choice of a potential husband.  Do not underestimate the power of the parents. Korean girls seek their parents’ approval and may end up breaking up with a guy if the parents disapprove and tell her to break up.

A Korean woman depends more on her family for support than a western woman.  Koreans tend to live with their family until they are married off in their late 20s or early 30s. As  result, they still have to follow their parents’ rules.  It is common for young women to have curfew even into their 30s.  The curfew time depends on the woman, but don’t be surprised if you are dating a girl who is 25 and she insists she has to be home by 10pm.

Usually, Koreans do not introduce their boyfriend or girlfriend until they are ready to marry. But when dating foreigner, they may want to test the waters about what the parental reaction will be before they decide on dating or marrying a foreigner.  Any meeting with the parents is a very serious event.

Take her family seriously and respect the rules of her house.  Keep the curfew as best you can.  Also, if you do meet her family, you’d better dress your best and be prepared to speak some Korean.  Even a few Korean words is enough to help win them over.

#5 You Will Be Koreanized

cute korean girl sex Dating Korean GirlsYou are dating in Korea, so naturally you will be expected to do things the Korean way.  You will be pressed to learn the Korean language, eat all kinds of Korean food, follow Korean fashion and follow proper Korean dating etiquette.

Korean Language

You may be urged to learn the Korean language as your relationship deepens.  It is not necessarily for your or her benefit, but rather she is already thinking ahead to the day you meet her parents.  She wants you to speak Korean to her family in the future.

Korean Food

You may be open to trying new food, but you may get served a squirming live octopus in front of you or freshly grilled dog.  Ok, the octopus and dog examples are extremes, but I am sure you will be presented with food you don’t like.   Respectfully decline the food and politely explain why you don’t want to or can’t eat it.

Korean Fashion
Imagine getting a new gift from your girlfriend, you open it up and it’s a lovely pink shirt.  Of course for Korean men, they are comfortable walking around in a pink shirts, but it may be something you would never even be caught dead in.  This may also be true for couple shirts.

I suggest setting the fashion rules early one. Go shopping together a few times and tell her the styles you like and don’t like.

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Dating Culture

You should follow Korean dating culture.  Be sure to know the special days here.  Also, be sure to buy appropriate gifts, like jewelry, flowers, expensive brand names, make-up, etc. for special occasions.

Also, you need to buy and wear a couple ring.  The couple ring is an important milestone in a relationship in Korea to show that you are in love and in an exclusive relationship with each other.

#6 Show Them the Money

korean_girls money sexy Dating Korean GirlsMoney, as in every country, is important in Korea.  Women like you to spend money on them and not be cheap. They like to go out and eat at nice restaurants.  They prefer their boyfriends to drive nice cars, have good jobs, take them on trips, buy them expensive gifts and, of course, pay for their plastic surgery if possible. Ok, the last one was a joke, kind of, but you get the point, they understandably like financially stable guys.  Certainly this is an international norm.

If you are actually a poor guy with no money then don’t worry. The keepers are not shallow. Korean women tend to be a little more forgiving of poorer foreigners.  They can recognize your love is genuine and they are smart enough to know this is more valuable.



#7 You are in a Competition

guy korea Dating Korean GirlsEverywhere you go, everything you buy for her and every sweet word you say will  be reported on Cyworld, Facebook, and Kakao talk with photo evidence.  She is in a life contest with her friends to see who has the most fun and the best boyfriend. Anything special will be communicated to her social network and she gains pleasure from positive and jealous responses from her friends.

Keep in mind that she is also monitoring her friends’ activities and what their boyfriends do for them, so be ready  for her to compare and complain if you are not as romantic or active as her middle school acquaintance’s boyfriend. Keep the dates fun, the food delicious and the gifts romantic or expensive and you will be considered a good boyfriend by her and the netizen review board.


 #8 Birth Control / Pregnancy

asian-cute-girl-koreanIt is true, Korean girls are just as curious to have sex with a foreigner as a new person coming to Korea.  They heard all the talk about your dick size and are eager to see the truth.  When the special moment does come, it is up to the guy to lead the way. Korean women can be quite passive in bed.

Korean women will trust you and expect the man to take control of birth control.  The two accepted methods are withdrawal and/or use a condom.  Getting a Korean women to take the “pill” will no doubt end in arguments of how dangerous it is and you are bad for recommending it.  Any other suggested form of birth control is just too foreign and will not even be considered.

Let’s move on to pregnancy and abortion.  Abortion is a sensitive topic, I am not making this into an argument of pro-choice or pro-family, I am just discussing the realities of Korea.

If a young Korean woman is impregnated by a Korean guy, and she doesn’t want to marry him, she will automatically know that a trip to the abortion clinic is the solution for her.  If she doesn’t want to go to the hospital to abort the baby, usually her family will intervene and push her towards an abortion. It is a rare thing to find a woman pregnant or with children before 26.  The sad truth is that Korea has one of the world’s largest abortion rates.

If she is made pregnant by a foreigner, then for you to suggest a trip to the hospital makes you an evil guy. She will hope you suggest taking her and the baby back to your home country, but if this is not meant to be, then she will just abort the baby.

The cost of an abortion is around 1,000,000 won and although abortion is officially illegal, you can easily find a clinic in every city.

#9 Break Up and Revenge

actress,asian,beautiful,cry,cute,drama,girl,korean,lee,yeon,hee,pretty,sad,sweetBreaking up with any girl can be a dangerous thing, especially if they are scorned.  If you dump them, they may have had their fantasy broken, feel betrayed,  and seek revenge. How can they get revenge? Well, they can interfere with your job or studies.  They can talk to your employer, teacher, Korean friends and try to make it look like you victimized them. They may call the police on any illegal activities you may be up to.  Be afraid, be very afraid.






#10 The Phone!

actress,asian,beautiful,cry,cute,drama,girl,korean,lee,yeon,hee,pretty,sad,sweetThis is without a doubt the most important things to know about dating a Korean woman.  You must follow the phone rules:

Always respond to her text messages promptly

If your k-girlfriend sends text messages, you should answer quickly. If you do not answer quickly, your girlfriend may complain that you are “eating” her messages.  She will complain and train you very well  to send morning messages, goodnight messages, and of course ask her if she has eaten breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Call her every day

A phone call from a boyfriend is an important daily event.  You should call as much as you can, but at the very least, you should give her a call in the late evening before bed.  You should be talkative and even if she calls you, you are expected to do the talking.  If you do not call her, expect an argument.

Never miss her call

If she calls you and you do not answer, you have just comitted the worst kind of crime. Expect her to start crazy calling.  100 calls in an hour + an equal number of text messages.  Her mind is already thinking about the slutty girl you must be with as the reason you do not answer the phone.

Phone arguments are very common with your new Korean girlfriend.  Do your best to follow the rules to limit these arguments.



Dating Korean Girls Conclusion

I hope your relationship with your Korean girlfriend is a positive one.  Try to experience everything you can, but be respectful to her and her culture.  And who knows, like many foreigners these days, you may end up marrying a Korean woman and starting a family.

Let us know your experiences about dating Korean girls in the comments below.

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113 Responses to "10 Things You Must Know About Dating Korean Girls"

  1. Tim Ford says:

    A good insite to dating a Koren girl.

  2. Guy Korea says:

    Thanks for the comment.

  3. Korean girl says:

    This is not totally true. I wanted to say This is only slut case.

  4. yup but what abt korean boy.

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  6. Ricardo Ortiz says:

    Hahaha ok good to know.

  7. iam love sex whit girls korean

  8. Leila says:


  9. Kirk Brown says:

    haha, good post, a nice blend of cultural compassion and humour. even though I got mine to marry me I think your much more knowlegable.

  10. Korean says:

    Its totally fake. Why do you write these things?

  11. Haoyang2k7 says:

    I had always fantasized about Korean girls. wooooooo…. that was scary..lols …………SKYPE me ….want to have more friends online..ESPECIALLY KOREAN GIRLS..(hehe) let’s see how you really are :P

  12. So Young Kim says:

    Im a korean girl, this is so true.

  13. Mira Han says:

    Where's "10 things you must know about dating Korean boys"?

  14. Helmi Wisc says:

    Well written… I find this spot on sir…

  15. 너같은거한테 안알려주죠 says:

    와~ 여자깔려고 작정했네 진짜 쓰레기다 이러고 외국인들이 한국에서 성범죄저지르면 안그래도 외국인 관리소홀하는데 저런 잘못된 인식을 심어주면서 한국와서 여자많이 따먹어봐라는 식으로 글쓰는 너같은 한국남 심보는 뭔데요 진짜 읽다 보니 화가 나네요 진짜 정작 외국에 유학하면서 한국남자에 대에 조롱하면 남자들 다 그런거아니다 젊은이들은 색각이 많이 유연해 지고 달라지고 있다 이러고 있는데 진짜 배신감이 느껴지네요 다시 말하지만 그쪽이 쓴 글만큼 그쪽의 생각도 더티하고 끔찍하네요

    • 윤소영 says:

      공감합니다. 외국인들에게 이런인식까지 심어주면서 …굉장히 불쾌하고 더럽네요
      저도 외국 유학오면서 한국남자들에 대한 좋은 인식들 심어주고 그러는데 화나네요 정말 이런 글을 왜 쓰는지 모르겠어요

    • x says:

      영어를 못이해하네 ㅂㅅ

    • ka says:

      영어못읽으심? 앞에서분명히 모든 여자들이 그러는건 아니다. 라고 써놨구만. 그리고 읽어보면 팩튼데? 한국여자들 진짜 저런 케이스많음. 글쓴이가 한국여자 작정하고 깔려고쓴글이 아니라 정말 보인의 경험, 그대로 보고 느낀것들을 쓴건데 그럼 저 외국인이 잘못임? 한국여자들이 이런식으로 행동하니까 이런글이나온거죠. 그래서 분명히 앞서 모든 코리안걸들이 그러는건 아니다라고 쓴거고, 글쓴이를 왜 욕함?

  16. Kddr Physics says:

    I don't believe any of this garbage honestly.

  17. Pantera AE says:

    Oh and Korean Women are very, very, jealous. Do not have another Korean girl as a friend..I found out the hard way!!!

  18. Julie says:

    That is sooooo true! I wonder who wrote this! :D

  19. Julian Tan says:

    Funniest thing ive read in a long time!

  20. Nadia Yap says:

    #9. Beware

  21. Nadia Yap says:

    You forgot to tag Raphael

  22. Nadia Yap says:

    You forgot to tag Raphael

  23. Ming Wang Lim says:

    Nadia Yap, Raphael already knows…

  24. 윤소영 says:

    외국인들에게 이런인식까지 심어주면서 …모두가 그런 것 처럼이야기를 하시네요. 전부가 그렇다는 식으로, 사실이긴합니다만 실제로는 저렇지 않죠;
    대한민국의 여성들이 다른나라로 매춘을 많이간다는 얘기도 있고 하지만 실제로 제 주변의 친구들은 외국인들에 대해 많이 원하지않아요. 환상은 있겠지만 저정도는 아니라고 봅니다. 전 현재 한국 남자친구 사귀고 있구요 이런 글을 쓰는 당신이 굉장히 불쾌하고 더럽네요

  25. So Young Kim says:

    that's not really my case, though. :)

  26. Korean f*ckr says:

    Korean girls are crazy horny

  27. Arsen Russian Term says:

    This is by FAR one of the most funniest, most enjoyable, and absolutely necessary articles I have ever read. Some key points stated in this masterpiece were just simply outrageously humorous. I thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience! Glad to have stumbled across this.

  28. Arsen Russian Term says:

    I now have this sudden urge to visit Korea to witness with my own eyes haha. And I do believe that there are many girls out there that probably have some different attributes than the ones mentioned here. But this was definitely expected in a manner or so haha.

  29. Hassan says:

    Thank you for the 10 advices. I have been living here since one year studying at yonsei universitg. I believe that those 10 point can not be applied on all korean girls. Because they have different characters and altittude. I have alot of korean friends girls and boys and all of them act differently. However, all korean girls like to be respected and treated well. also slowly approcing them when it comes to that moment. One thing i can add here they really like so much attension and want to be special.

    you do not expect to use weastren style with korean girls ! insted understand the korean culture and from there you can approch the good korean girls.

    if you looking for more easy girls, find a korean girl who has lived in america. they understand what you want!

  30. Ahmad says:

    I don’t know what to say but I did all more than this and she listened to her parents and I end up in hospital

  31. they are just like any other, or you could use this one to act like a kgf.

  32. 마이클 (Michael) says:

    I must say my experience was almost the opposite of this.
    She came to Canada to study and work. We began dating and after 3 months it ended.
    I bought her nice gifts, remembered and celebrated special events, took her out multiple times a week and called/texted her daily. Her parents objected to our relationship because I am not Korean but she refused their opinion and said they would come to understand I was a perfect match for her.
    I already knew of the Korean tradition of the “couples ring” and suggested it to her. She thought it was awesome that i knew about that but had no desire to get couple rings. To make matters more confusing, the next week, she spoke of wanting to marry me. I received the idea with great happiness and supported it fully. We even went ring shopping. I know all of that was really early in the relationship, but I wanted her to feel appreciated and loved.
    Then suddenly at the 3 month mark she went from saying “I love you”, as we fell asleep, to “We need time apart” – (which led to breaking up) the next morning.
    Confused and shut out from her life, I let her go and now I find myself ready to try again. I can honestly say I will be looking to date another Korean girl, only this time I will be better prepared.

    • Robin Shaw says:

      Thanks for sharing your story. This article is just for fun and should never be considered the bible of dating a Korean girl.

  33. Marc says:

    Wait, are you serious? You guys are willing to leave America , the land of freedom (aka free sex), just to b stuck in a place where to get women you have to keep your balls in a freezer, and be totally pussywhipped? Seriously man, let who check my phone? You guys need to come back home….. Don’t become vagina men… Have some self respect, for the love of G-D!

  34. Lenny says:

    Korean girls are fake, boring, retarded, and superficial.

    Get a white girl.

  35. Lisa Kolumna says:

    #3 and #6 are the funniest! :D

  36. KaRam Yoon says:

    I wonder how many korean women this writer dated and made this ridiculous conclusion. #3 is not true but can't deny #6…

  37. Askger Hadwin says:

    #11 Never meet another girl without your korean girl friend, even it's just a friend. *observer Geng is near* D:~ :D

  38. Saschl Txyz says:

    haha – too funny :D oh god^^ where do you dig out such stuff everytime^^

  39. KaRam Yoon says:

    치김well, Korean women should be changed about 'being strongly jealous' ..we need more TRUST. I first couldn't understand for example my bf meeting female friends, but as time goes by, I was too harsh on that. now i know telationship works with trust and i can understand and will let my futurest bf meet female friends.

  40. Kevin Grabb says:

    If my date ever grabbed my phone and looked through it, I would grab it back and stick her with the bill.

  41. KaRam Yoon says:

    checking phone, email or SNS messages of someone is uncool and rude. I even can't check my brother's devices. privacy is privacy. in Korea, some women share their bf's password

  42. Sara says:

    Omg. Korean girls don’t have fantasy about foreigners staying in Korea. cos foreigners who teach at English language school are normally poor and uneducated in their country. That’s why they come to Korea. If they aren’t lower-class their home and if they could get a job in their country, Why do they work earning less money in Korea? How poor! I assure that intelligent korean girls are never interested to you. If you are in a relationship with a Korean girl, that girl pretends to love you to learn English or she is abnormal as you are in your country. Don’t be deceived.

  43. This has to be one of the most comprehensive articles on dating Korean girls. I should have read this article before I started dating Koreans. It would have helped so much. I also like the last part which is to answer the calls as quickly as possible. I got in trouble by this very quickly.. lol

  44. Anpan says:

    I have a Korean girlfriend, and (somewhat regretfully) left Japan to be with her in Seoul, even though I’m bored out of my mind here. We have our cultural misunderstandings and fights, but get along despite. My preference for Japan isn’t very popular with Koreans either, haha. Why don’t I go back to Japan and date a Japanese girl if I like there so much? Because Japanese girls are out of their mind, they are like robots. Everything they say and do is like taken from a manual and are about as emotional as a dead fish. Anyways, whether Korean or white girl, I don’t believe in showering any girl with gifts and expensive dinners, or carry all her shit when she did too much shopping, unless of course it’s some heavy luggage that couldn’t be avoided. There’s a difference between having manners and being someone’s doormat. Perhaps my Scandinavian mind works different, women want to be treated as equals, don’t they? I’ve witnessed way too many guys spending a fortune on their gf, just so she can keep her money for shopping and whatever while we guys go bankrupt. Where’s the fairness in that? Because she cares for me? Gives me sex? We guys do the same for the gf, and never expect to get a Playstation 4 or an iPhone, etc. in return. Keep paying for everything and your precious gf will have her mind set that love equals the money you spend on her. And I don’t always pick up when my gf calls or reply to messages, rather than her scolding me over this, she’s come to accept it, because this is the way I am, nothing that I’m proud of. Also, despite my gf being 100% Korean, she hates couple rings, couple outfits and never wants to inspect my phone, I wouldn’t let her either, even though my phone’s basically blank. She’s not into me having female friends though, which is ridiculous. I hate sports and other stuff that most guys like, which makes it nearly impossibe for me to have male friends, no matter how hard I tried. Female friends doesn’t equal wanna sleep with them. Sure I care for my gf. I cook for her, take care of her when she’s sick, we go out and do things together, and sometimes I grab the bill for coffee, dinner whatever, but made it clear from the beginning that I’m not her personal ATM. I do get to hear stories about how Korean guys do this and that for a girl. Tough luck. Also, Korean girls don’t throw themself over foreigners, it’s a ridiculous myth. It’s easier for Korean girls to date Korean guys, since they are, I quote someone else’s comment, “pussywhipped” and will do anything she tells him in exchange for some sex. I gotta say though that having a Korean girlfriend has given me more joy than any relationship with a Western girl. After 2 years in Japan, I’ve learned to realise that there’s something very masculine, dominant and threatening about Western women that makes me feel uneasy. They walk around in pants, messy hair and have this twisted idea of feminism, that being beautiful, sexy and doing your best to look good is degrading. Korean women smell better, dress better, have nicer skin, better hair, more manners etc, no wonder guys abandon white girls. There’s these stories about white guys taking advantage of Korean girls, not true. I treat my girl with respect and never expect her to do anything for me. I’m sure a lot of people may get pissed about reading this, but it’s just my own opinion speaking here. Guys should never take threats in a relationship, if she’s making unreasonable demands, or you feel “in trouble” just tell her the relationship is over if she has that many concerns.

    • Hideki Tojo says:

      Japan has its faults and the women can be mindless, but Korea is just like a crappier version, not surprised you are bored out of your mind.
      At least in Tokyo there is more to do, and a sizeable foreign contingent you can talk to when tired of the Japan Nationalism. Far fewer foreigners in Korea, I believe and more transient (just do one year to pay off loans then get the hell out!)

  45. Usui Takumi says:

    well good experience :) thank you but ……. my korean girlfriend broke up with me a long time ago ! she said: "i want to live in presents". What is that supposed to mean ?

  46. Sarah Lee says:

    I am a korean woman. i think it is for 60% of korean women..

  47. Sarah Lee says:

    that's true but not all of them.

  48. Sena says:

    It’s really interesting and funny:)
    but, in my case(I’m 21 Korean girl), I’ve never wondered about having sex with a foreigner ever…and most my friends are also too.
    I hope some foreigners not to have a misunderstanding of Korean girls…

  49. Peter Trong says:

    wow wel said and nw this time i kniw wht' s the important thing in life to b apart frm k-girlfriend is the abouve 10 lines and i wish i can get k-girlfriend by one day

  50. 커리 says:

    Nice article. But the delusion most korean women are attracted to “handsome” white men is grossly overstated, along with the assumption that it is always about appearance and money.

    The truth is as long as you are endearing and charming, it doesnt matter how much money you make or what color your skin is. I can personally attest.

  51. Sam Smith says:

    Need your help…am dating a k-girl, but we have not got over the stage of kissing
    …there is no lead from her…what i doing wrong?

  52. K says:

    Withdrawal is not a working form of contraception.

  53. haha says:

    This post is very funny to me :)
    Not all girls in korea behave like this. I doubt your true intention.

  54. haha says:

    I’m agree. That report is bull shit. It’s very funny to me. hahaha :) Not all korean girl behave like this.

  55. she wants to be pampered with gifts!

  56. she wants to be pampered with gifts!

  57. Usui Takumi says:

    Roger Alberto i never knew that girls from korea can crush a man's heart so deeply :(

  58. passer-by says:

    Well, As a Korean girl, I don’t agree with this article to some degree.
    (but I admit you are right partly)
    I think more especially 6,8,9 cases are matters with slutty ones chasing only foreign guys.

    Actually, I didn’t know foreign guys hate to wear a pink shirt until I read this article.
    If I had a foreign boyfriend and he hated it, I wouldn’t force him to do that.
    Love is based upon understanding, regardless of races, nationalities.
    I Hope you all guys will find true love.

  59. a korean woman says:

    this article makes all korean women seem bitchy and materialistic but that’s really not true. I hope it’s not scaring foreigners away and making another stereotype. Not all of us are vicious and obssessive with money and phone calls. I think experience is really what matters before judging someone off an article that implies korean women have extreme expectations. Many people will be surprised to find out how cool we can be in relationships and worth the experience. ^.^

  60. hahah says:

    Haha, I just threw up a little in my mouth. I’m not here to judge this article, nor have any intention or motivation. It’s a best description of any other stuck up pretentious and obnoxious female around the world. Hah!

  61. Yana Sakharova says:

    After all i' ve read dont want date korean..we have to this we have to that..sorry…are they british queens?they need money 4plastic sergery..and i have to meet a monster pay for her upgrade?omg. So ridiculous

  62. asdf1 says:

    Fucking disgusting to see these loser white males who are treated like cockroaches back in their home country, write these garbage about their Asian fetish.

    These failures fly halfway across the planet to leech off of Korean economy / Korean tax payer’s hard earned money, because they cant find a half decent job outside of food service industry with their shitty liberal arts degrees. They also take advantage of Korean women since they obviously cant get laid in their own countries.

    Korean government should seriously expel all white male English teachers from the country. Most of them are sexual predators who are more interested in exploiting local women than actually teaching English.

    • JanuZ says:

      It seems that you know ALL of this guys with names, otherwise you couldn´t say this!
      Or do you tell us from another cliche? I can say, I read much about sex-tourism, and you are right, this is disgusting and this is disrespectful against the woman, and the land. But I can tell you, not so many as you think are so. When I am visiting another culture, I know that I am a guest, and that I have to behave well and with respect, because I want to be handled respectful too.
      You talk about “asian fetish”. That may be right, but please try to see it with “both eyes”. One this hand, there are those looser guys you talk about. You are so right, this people are disgusting…and if you condemnd them, let me say me and many other condemnd them to. But on the other hand, there are people (male and female) who love asians , because they are look so beautiful in their eyes. And they don´t care for cliches, it´s just a kind of taste, like if you prefer a redhaired more than a blonde one. I love asian women too, especially korean or japanese, because of their beautiful look, and sure NOT of the cliches, because at the end it doesn´t matter from which culture you or your partner come, at the end only the love countsand that someone touch your heart.
      So please don´t damn all white people because of those perverted Idiots…..wish you the best

    • Hideki Tojo says:

      whats your beef with the Liberal Arts?

  63. JanuZ says:

    ^^ That´s funny and a handful of cliches. But don´t forget the beginning-words of the author: “Note: The article ’10 Things You Must Know About Dating Korean Girls’ was meant to be for fun. I am speaking from just my own personal experience as a white male”
    So every nation have their cliches. Maybe as a german I can write you some cliches to date a german woman/girl. You can find cliches in every land, in every gender etc. but this stand not for the individual person.
    And at the end forget all cliches, forget all thoughts about which are the better females/males for dating, just let the love decide :)

  64. x says:

    Most of them comments is what prepubescent teenage girls would say. Wake up bixxhes.

  65. Sam Jenkins says:

    This article is horrendous and should be removed. It commodifies Korean women and is borderline racist. At best it is a poorly written stereotype fest, at worst it is something that belongs on the internet's trash heap.

  66. Hideki Tojo says:

    So lame and cliched- “Korean (women are really the best) in the world”- google a bit and you ll find the internet is saying that Korean women are the most troublesome in Asia. Other “korea is number 1″ cliches are “Best pilots in the world” (plane dropped, everyone screamed), “The first humans originated in Korea”, etc etc.

    What next? Jesuc Christ was Korean? Actually I think I heard that one too.

  67. Sergej Leijonmarck says:

    I have a korean girlfriend, even though i was a "babo" in the start she is now my eggi :)
    These rules are accurate!

  68. Antonio Carlos says:

    Very goood you said it sa about your girl friemd only!
    Korean are all you said but a averahe dont get drunker and dont.go for sex before 3 months dating! Neogjbours countries are even more conservatives ! Also any asian woman arent not hot or horny as non asiam ones! Very rare happen u be lucky! Korean and Thai girls are very up dated ahead othrss asians!

  69. Josh says:

    My korean wife is from Seoul and we live in Sarasota Florida now and this is not close to true about Korean women it’s true in general for most women although the food can be interesting but, absolutely delicious also plenty and spice… Don’t be afraid of korean women just be yourself and how you SHOULD treat any women and all will fine live and live each other… That’s how a relationship works with any as you say K-girl but as I would suggest any girl……

  70. Korean Female says:

    This is fucking incorrect.
    Koreans girls are all same with others. Well I agree some korean girls might think like this article, but that means they are slut. Not every koreans are like this article. wow it makes me feel angry. Don’t judge korean by these kinds of articles, WE ARE NOT SLUT

  71. K Ng says:

    I found this to be 1/3 and 1/5 are true. Korean girls are very nice and loyal to their lover b/f , husband or even a friends. once you marry just be honest and don’t cheat. I have seen guys from different culture especially India, American are the real play boy they only want short term or shall I say 1 night stand… Jaja that’ s true Bro don’t lies. All Asian girls you guys met all you wanted is SEX but nothing else. Even worse you guys take them to bed at home hotel and make videos of them. you are really sick SOB. if my sister ever got treated like that and when I find out you wont have any more D to make baby any more. Got that Bro ..!!

    To all Asian girls if you wanted to date a foreigner man. watch your own Azz cuz they are BAD. don’t beleave a things about what they says but do watchout when they had you… your life is destroyed by hidden camera every where. this is a heads-up for all your Asian Female young and old.

  72. Vendetta says:

    “Don’t whine about it being your personal privacy, just hand over the damn phone.”

    You massive pussy chode.

  73. In Hong says:

    Whoa….Super interesting article, even more intriguing comments.

    I’m a 1.5 generation Korean girl, meaning I was born in Korea but raised in Canada since I was very young. I have heard and seen some of the sterotypes described in this article, and I must admit, I’m quite similar in some sense. I love sex, I love giving little thoughtful gifts, and I work hard trying to be dressed appropriately for the day. It’s as if I get a thrill of happiness that shivers down my spine when I’m able to brighten someone’s day giving, “Happy Non-Birthday!” gifts.

    I’ve been told I’m materialistic, competitive, and have unrealistic expectations of myself and the quality of life I wish to live in…I completely disagree. I think I just value the idea of living life in the best way possible. I am working on lowering my expectations though…

    I hate the plastic surgery industry. Girls should appreciate their natural beauty! Even make-up other than used in an artistic sense bothers me. Why hide who you really are? Why cave to someone else’s sense of beauty?? But… I was born pretty, so what do I know?

    I do perfer being a subordinate in the bedroom, but I want to be strong and looked up upon in my profession.

    I love my family but I left home because I couldn’t deal with the cultural confusion my parents and I had.

    I think all women should have the freedom to choose who/how/when to date, without fear from the expectations of society. It’s our life and we only live once, I want to enjoy every moment possible! Too much suck to embrace in life anyways, don’t really need the extra judgement.

    I don’t ethnically discriminate who I get romantically involved with. I’ve been with Koreans, Americans, Africans, Indians, and Europeans. We’re all human.

    I don’t think Korean girls are better/worse than other Asians. I think we’ve all had a fairly shealtered upbringing so it’s only natural we’ll want to be more explorative when we are mature enough to realize we’ve lived in a bubble the whole time…o.O Wake-up girls!

    To all men interested in dating us, we just want to be loved. Please communicate with us bluntly and honesty. We keep second guessing ourselves if you’re not direct. We over think everything!

    For the young and unexperienced, open relationships are the way to go. You learn so much more of what you’re looking for in you’re true life partner. Trust and transparency is the key to all relationships. It’ll really make a difference when you’re ready to settle down. You won’t have the massive pain from all “the one”s that didn’t work out.

    P.s. get checked out at least once a year everybody!

  74. Joe says:

    Sounds like the author has dated the wrong women, regardless of ethnicity.

    My comments:

    #1 Seriously, who’d put up with a psycho chick who called 100 times for not immediately responding to a text/phone call and also asked to check his phone to make sure he’s not talking to other women?

    #2 Who wants to date someone who’s in a 24/7 competition with all of her Facebook “friends”? Sounds like an immature woman with no self-worth. IMHO, Facebook is nothing but a fantasy world where a 15 y/o unemployed nerd living with parents can mysteriously transform into a successful 30 y/o ladies man with a thriving career and mansion via fake photos and lying about their lives.

    #3 Sounds like the author met a few gold-diggers looking for a sugar daddy or 1-way ticket out of Korea.

    #4 If you’re already seen as a playboy even before getting to know somebody, perhaps you need to find someone else with an open mind. Sounds like the author’s ex-GF mentioned is one of those bitter, angry cat women who aren’t over their cheating ex-BF yet (even after several years). Run away fast, my friend….

    I realize that Korean culture is different than the west, but not all Korean women can be stereotyped as insecure, jealous stalkers or gold-diggers. No offense intended to the author, but recommend that you choose your women more wisely.

    • Raymond Everlasting says:

      Haha Agree with you… Its also sound like the author only finding a ” One Night Stand” , so Korean Girls beware with this Guy!!! ^_^

  75. Antwon White says:

    I find myself laughing at this, because almost all of it is 100% spot on!

  76. Peter says:

    Thanks for these great dating tips for dating Korean women.

    #4 point seems the same for other Asian girls.
    #6 is a very interesting point.

    Great information!:D

  77. Amir Alvio says:

    I dont have problem with all of this……instead it is sound so challenging which and interesting and I think i kind of liking it except for the abortion in country it is a no no no….if it does happen we men have to be responsible for it…

  78. Raymond Everlasting says:

    This is Funny and Enjoyable to read but I think every girl in korea have different attitudes , views and personality… And they are woman , what should we guys “Expect”…. The only wrong part here is that is doing such things for the namesake of “SEX and LUST” , I thought you said to be “Respective”… A man should only go for the Heart and a Soul of a woman… Not be thirsty on the FLESH…

  79. Anonymous says:

    If this is true I would never ever date and be trapped or caged to any sperm crevice like that. Fucking sick and possessive people.

  80. I like Korean Girls, but I am scared by your ex price from them. But is it possible to date a university student Korean girl

  81. ㅋㅋ says:

    대단하구만 한국여자랑 잘려고 이먼곳까지 날아오냐

  82. Tairing Jin says:

    Never ever related with korean girls they are all gold digger slutty idiot whore

  83. Pathos Jun says:

    All REAL.
    Korean girls are fuqing FUSSY and hard to understand wht they’re thinking all the time.
    But they could become very easy if u guys keep in mind this text and do like thisss.
    I swear.
    Good luck to you guys’ funny SEX LIFE with Korean Horny Bitches.
    They’re very easy to have fun with actuallyyy.

  84. YOLO says:

    K-girls are materialistic and stuck-up as much as in a gold-digger mindset, but they give you little bang for the buck.
    Their ‘cuteness appeal’ is in fact no more than a facade for their childish immaturity and insecurity. We boys certainly like being the manly man, being dominant and in control over woman, but K-girls playbook is geared towards feeding off of the very trait of men.
    If you like being the sucker, go for K-girls. For temporary joyride? Eh, they aren’t packing much in that regard. Otherwise, bros, you’ve been warned.

  85. Rachel says:

    As a Korean woman, I think this post is soooo exaggerated.
    He just listed disadvantages when you date with K-girls.
    Maybe the writer has an experienced betrayed by K- girls. :P

    We are so considerate, and thoughtful to boyfriend.
    even cute, and sexy at the same time.

    Some bitches have fantasy about Western guys, but that’s only some who are not educated well.
    and about the money, if she expects you pay all things in date, she is a bitch too.

    So please don’t generalize us as an ass-hole

  86. A motivating discussion is definitely worth comment.
    I do think that you should write more about this topic, it might not be a taboo subject but
    generally people do not speak about such topics.
    To the next! Kind regards!!

  87. I also like Korean girls. I will do what she says and what she's in needs. I will suggest to bring her to a trip to my country and with the baby. I will always be there for her and cherish with. Find this girl , her name is Eugene Jung. She's my only hope and to my life. I love you. Eugene.

  88. No matter where she go , she's forever in my heart. She's in my life and so is my destiny. Even if she is important to me , but I will never say no to her. Stay beside her and never let her go , even that so. I always love her the most and I'm falling in love with her. Starting to know her , working in Singapore , and I finally meet her. She must know that I will never give up on her , until we are always meant to be.

  89. 박수빈 says:

    솔직히 사실이긴 하잖아요 하는 말이 대부분.
    외국사람들과 비교했을 때 대부분 맞는 말 같습니다.

    요즘 커플들이 어떻게 행동하는지 조금만 보시면 아실텐데요.. ㅎ

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